Questions from a 1 year on HRT MTF, pre-op

Questions from a 1 year on HRT MTF, pre-op

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Published on Thu Oct 22, 2009 5:04 pm
Rift: eTransgender :: Transgender Forum

Hey my name is Kayla, ive been on hormones for 1 year and i love it and anxiously awaiting GRS, the thing is, im engaged to a woman, i like men very much i dream of having a husband oneday not a wife but i love erin too much, i dont have it in me to break up with her, shes my whole world, but a wife isnt what i want, deep deep down all i want is a man, what should i do, im so lost, if i break up with her ill b on the streets of either nanaimo, victoria, or vancouver, or wherever i pick because there is noowhere for me to go at the moment as for her she would probably move back in with her mother. what should i do, any advice would help.
Thanks

Kayla Kay, age 20 MtF
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Kayla again, any answers if you could could u please e-mail em to Lady_Kalanah@live.com

Thanks

Kayla

Honesty is very important. If you don't talk it over with her, then you will be even more unhappy in the future. You can't always have everything you want. My relationship is one where I'm the female partner of a transwoman. She thought she wanted a husband, too. However, there are lots of ways where even though I'm genetically a woman, I fit the gender role of husband better. We've worked things out between us in our own way. There's more than one way to live.... but it's important to be honest through it all. You might be pleasantly surprised.